Malaise de L'Orange
Monday, January 25, 2010 5:35 pm
i was researching on fruit illustrations and came upon this. |
The Dreaded 11
Friday, January 22, 2010 8:53 pm
I have a NY Resolution that I don't even think is a resolution, more like an unfulfilled wish that I need fulfilled... and soon, before I go crazy.
Crazy from reciting the Dreaded 11 everytime mention of any of the exes come up:
Going into our 4th month, I'm f***ing hating the fact that I have to repeat the whole bloody list mentally. The routine involves taking deep breaths and reciting the dreaded list, point after point, literally forcing myself to believe what I'm saying. It's painful heartwrenching effort, considering Words of Affirmation is my lowest and all it takes is one negative Act of Service to undo whatever good the Words of Affirmation do. It definitely doesn't help that the positive Acts of Service have yet to directly counter the insecurities the negative AoS has unleashed, as this blog entry has attested. See Point No. 6. I'm not bothering to hint anymore. So, no, deleting and restarting a new facebook account is NOT a positve AoS. And no, it definitely doesn't help how my bf took it upon himself to love the people who chose to stick around him when others had abandoned him. I admire his ability to forgive and still smile in the face of adversity. There is an abundance of joy in him that's addictive and one cannot help but feel that it's God's grace doing its magic. You cannot not smile when you see him. So, how can I not give in to his reasons? What kind of bitch will that make me? Is this what the devil will use to wear down a relationship? Is it unreasonable of me to ask him to not be best friends with those girls? Didn't my pastor say that the man can only have his wife as his best friend? Is this what he calls affair-proofing a relationship? I don't know what to think anymore, only that I do not want this misery in a marriage. I know it's only been 4 months, but for the past 5 months, it's been constantly driving me to the edge of misery everytime a mention of her comes up. That her being his best friend, shows that she's still important to him. I'm sad that we have this issue, an issue that none of my friends are experiencing. Why can't I also have a bf who don't keep contact with his exes? Now he don't just keep contact, but he calls her his best friend. Next thing I know, she'll catch him unaware in an emo i'm-single-&-lonely moment and sucker-punch us all with a "i'm sorry it just happened". And who's fault will that be? I'm ashamed to say that after blogging about this, I am feeling better. Only the tiniest bit since things are not addressed but... at least it's better than nothing. Update: Swinging by to update that all's fine and dandy on the love lane and we're pretty smoochingly happy. We reasoned in the end that one of the said ex will fade into oblivion and clearer lines of boundaries will be established over time with the other. So I wont retract the blog entry; it was not written with the intention to exaggerate my emotions and having it around just goes to remind me to trust and have faith in my man, regardless of the situations and people involved. |
MAC Makeup: Pink Lilies Inspired
Monday, January 18, 2010 9:11 am
Should I try this for CNY.... hmmm.... |
Tsubasa Inspired Japanese Eye makeup
Sunday, January 17, 2010 11:44 am
now we can all look jappish.... or is it japish? hmm... |
Brown Smokey with 88 Palette
1:27 am
Usually when I watch makeup tutorials, I'll stop watching if the girl is not pretty. Very bad right? But wait, there's a reason to it. If the "after" picture is worse than the "before" picture, then makeup FAIL right! Might as well go au natural and skip the war paint.
Anyway, to digress, I shall try this one night: |
Seriously Addictive Stuff
Monday, January 11, 2010 10:05 am
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