5 things I miss about NUS
Monday, December 31, 2007 8:12 am
Our dear JaNehNeh finally blogged about the 10 things he missed about NUSSU CBLC after some bugging.
And here's the pic that goes with Point No 1, bro: ![]() And for the record, you're OLDER than Mel, Ange & me k. Bleh. After reading Gerard's entry, I also xin yang yang. SO, here goes my version, in no particular order:- I miss: 1) The friends in NUSSU CBLC and my Chemistry cohort Randall, Gary, Weishi, Yuqi (cannot forget the matchmaker!), Dexter, Jade, Ange, Mel, Gerard, Pooh, Tiko and certain individuals I choose not to name & let the past stay buried. You guys really make a difference in my NUS days. Among all the friends, you are the ones who cared enough to listen when I'm in need. Thanks for your love =) As for the Unmentionables, encounters with you have taught me the importance of being more discerning of people around me. Nevertheless, thank you too. 2) Union Camp 2003 & 2004 It's the start of my journey with CBLC. If I hadn't joined as a counsellor, I won't have bumped into Ange. If I hadn't bumped into Ange, I won't have gotten recruited into CBLC along with the other freshies like JaNehNeh & Daniel. If I hadn’t bump into Daniel, I won’t have gotten invited to CHC & so on. Again, it wasn't really the programs per se, but the people whom I've gotten to know through them =) 3) Post Union Camp Activities Still remember the almost-daily meetups with Phoenix in the hols @ Weian’s house, playing captain’s ball in the pool until late & ordering Canadian pizzas. I think that’s when the real fun happens – after Union Camp haha! 4) Mugging in the Science library 4th level from 10-9 every exam period. If you want to mug, surround yourself with muggers. Thankfully, it worked for my CAP =) Additional perks were getting to know the bunch of Chemistry frens with whom I foresee keeping for life (see previous entry) and getting to know someone special =p Now you know why I choose Chemistry as my major, Ma. *wink 5) Duty @ CBLC YIH That place is practically my 2nd home – with a personal pigeonhole for toiletries, sleeping bag, slippers, textbooks, snacks (of course I’m not sleeping on duty sheesh) & I totally miss watching Naruto & Friends lah! Don’t think the other students miss my loud guffaws thou -_-''' Can only think of 5 for now =P Anyway, have a blessed 2008 everyone! |
Tuesday, December 11, 2007 1:01 pm
Angsty entry ahead. You’ve been warned.
One of my friends likes to rant & rant verbally. Me? I type & type...... blog drafts, only to eventually publish one. This one. And this is Draft Number 63 (yah, I counted) and I’m only publishing it cos it has practically zero expected repercussions. Firsthand experience taught me how words can make or break a person. ++++++++++++++++++++ On the way back home, I was pondering about a close friend’s situation and even though he’s handling it well, the more I think about it, the more I got reminded of past slanders & how sickeningly easy it is for hatred to spread. Makes it even worse if it happened in a place you expect to find love. If you’re not happy with the person, find a time to tell him (season with salt, please) If face to face confrontation isn’t your cup of tea, fine. Write to him then. Even better, you can edit your words (presuming you have the common sense to do so) before handing over the letter. If you are only comfortable with telling someone close to you, think twice about how constructive your words will be at settling the matter. And I say this again - “I need to get it off my chest” is no excuse. If you love gathering members to your Self-Pity Society, then please just keep quiet. And honey, may I gently remind you that the whole world doesn’t revolve around you. Which brings me to the next point; there’s a high chance you don’t like yourself very much in the 1st place… And when all else fails, put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself if you enjoy being in them. So how now? Guess not. Wake up & grow up, for goodness’ sake. You are so not a kid anymore. ++++++++++++++++++++ One of the Facebook applications allows one to add friends to one’s “Top Friend” list. Up to 35, I think. Question: If someone you don’t regard as a “Top Friend” added you to her list, would you cave in and add anyway? A friend went on to point out that I don’t really let people into my inner circle, do I? Well, true and false. If you have earned my respect and has shown that you can handle keeping a secret, I’ll share. In bits and pieces, over Starbucks or your humble void-deck kopitiam =p If you have a loose tongue, I won’t waste my time sharing to you, har-dee-har laughter aside. Ok fine - in dire circumstances so you know you're not alone, I’m staying in the boat and we’ll ride out the storm together. Contrary to your impression of me by now, I DO have a heart. On a lighter note, I’ve been double-counting my blessings for the precious handful of friends I know I can keep for life. I thank God again for you. (hugs & smooches) ++++++++++++++++++++ 5 Love Languages – Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts, Physical Touch My results say “Acts of Service” (Hahahaha a sunny thought just came to mind. Of mei opening & pouring my can of green tea, asking earnestly “so how how your love tank got fill up anot???”) Honestly speaking, the one thing that touches my heart is meeting my need at that point in time. Whether is it your company, a little encouragement, some form of help, a little present to brighten up my day or just a simple hug. It doesn’t need to cost much just to let me know that you’re there, really. +++++++++++++++++++ Closing with a disclaimer, just in case. If you are offended in any way to what I’ve written, I'm sorry. +++++++++++++++++++ Toodles. Gotta go finish a presentation. |