When do u step in?

Do u step in & protect a fren frm all that shit... or do u look at everything frm one corner, keep ur comments to yourself, let things happen & decide an ending for themselves, no mattter how seemingly negative the whole thing sounds?

On one hand, that fren'll be unappreciative that u poke your nose in & possibly compromise his/her probable long-term happiness. On the other, u know that there's a very minute chance of things miraculously working out & if they dont but they've gone quite far, u know your fren's gonna be devastated...well, ok, extremely sad. But that's bad enuf, 'noe wad I'm sayin'?

So I chose the latter. Cos there's always HOPE.
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Everything above, including my views abt so many dating issues (games, rules, minor or major hints, actions, "no-action" actions, words spoken or unspoken, u name it I went-thru/heard-abt it) are pretty cliche... so cliche that u just wonder if God's making EVERYONE go thru the same shit.

I'm not a judgemental person & will still hold that slight smidget of respect for that person UNLESS I witness/hear for myself
wat serious shit they did. Then it's really time to wake up & smell the coffee aint it? Naivety dont work no more in the game of love (or anywhere else for that matter)... & when it's someone else's game, the outsider does get to see other perspectives that the players dont... unfortunately/fortunately?

Amazing how one can be blinded by Hope... but without it, life's meaningless. Needless to say, the same goes for Love.

So my frens, if u happen to chance upon this entry, do think twice before any action. Liking someone doesn't justifies being in a relationship w him or her.